Marriage is a beautiful relationship where two people have one soul and share love forever. However, not everyone has a good married life.
The first few years of married life is the romantic phase. But after 4-5 years husbands generally get bored and their attention gets diverted.
There are cases where husbands start to like their sister-in-law. They even have affairs and thus they destroy their married life.
If your sister and husband are too close then always keep an eye on them. If their closeness is suspicious, take action immediately.
If you are having doubts about whether your husband likes your sister or not, note how they behave with each other.
What are the signs that your husband like your sister?
Your husband likes your sister if he is always flirting & talking to your sister and giving her more importance than you.
Your husband being close with your sister is not a bad thing. But every relation has a limit and boundary. If they are overstepping the limit then definitely something is fishy.
Moreover, every wife has a sixth sense. If their closeness is making you uncomfortable something is cooking over between them.
Here are a few signs that you should look out for if your husband likes your sister:
- Your husband is flirting with your sister.
- Your husband is always talking with your sister.
- Your sister and husband are always together going shopping, movies, or restaurants in your absence.
- Your husband is giving expensive gifts to your sister.
- Your sister is always at your home.
- Your husband no longer wants to spend time with you.
- He wants to spend most of his time with your sister.
If your husband is behaving just as said above, it’s possible he likes your sister.
What to do if your husband likes your sister?
If you think your husband likes your sister, approach him immediately. Talk with him about why he is behaving suspiciously around your sister.
Question him why he wants to be around your sister more than you. You should make him realize that his behavior is ruining your married life. Also, tell him that his actions are breaking your heart and trust.
You should strictly ask your husband to cut all ties with your sister. Also, convey to him how much you love and care about him. Show him your love side as well. No matter what you do you should present your points with clarity.
Should I approach my sister?
There may be two scenarios when your husband likes your sister. The first case is that the feelings may be mutual. The second case might be that your sister may not have any interest in him.
In the first scenario, talk strictly with your sister. Ask her not to meet or talk with your husband anymore.
In the second scenario, you actually do not have many options. Your sister is not at fault. All you can do is ask her to be by your side.
It is disheartening to see your husband liking someone else. When it is your sister whom he likes, your heart breaks into thousand pieces. But you have to take control and stand for yourself.